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anonymous
writes:Ok, im just so confused. So i like a guy, and he happens to be a good friend of mine...but he acts so weird. im really shy, so i cant initiate conversation. He used to have...sorta an unspoken rule about only talking to me once a day in a designated spot, but then he seemed to get more bold, and he invited me to a camp thing and it was really fun. After that, something had changed between us. now he talks to me more, but he still ignores me completely in the hallways, sometimes even to inform me that he did actually see me...and when im with him, he hugs every single girl who he knows who passes by, but he rarely touches me. he is a flirt with everyone, so i guess i should expect it, but its weird. Oh, and also, for awhile, we didnt have time to talk in person so we would text. We know things about eachother that no one elso does, and we tell eachother we love eachother as friends a lot. So we know eachother pretty well, and sometimes he'll randomly txt me and ask me how my day was, hes called a few times. I just cant figure out why he ignores me. I know its my fault too for not talking to him, but do you have any advice? and do you think i might still have some hope?
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reader, Dinkie  +, writes (23 November 2009):
im sorry but real friends talk in public! he's either embarraced to be seen with you but somehow likes you (im not saying its your fault cause when this happens its usually them thinking they are to good for people)or hes just pilling your stringsyou need to speak to him and tell him you dont understand why hes like that and that you dont like it or find your self a better friend
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): It sounds like this guy is not the type who likes to be in commitments or relationships especially if he flirts with alot of girls. this maybe the reason why he ignores you sometimes to show that he wants to be friends but doesnt want it to go further. this is just a theory however honestly i know alot of guys like this one and from personal experience i know it doesnt lead to anything and eventually if you start to 'cling' then they ignore you all the time. im not saying your clingy dear im just saying you need to treat him as nothing but a friend if he likes you more than a friend he will want to know you.
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