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writes:Advice from woman please! female house mate!So here's the situation- I'm living in a house share with an attractive woman, whom also happens to be the landlady! I'm not sure if she likes me as more then a friend, however here as some key points--She texts me all the time during the week and when i scoot off up home, just random things about what shes been up to etc...-She slags off other woman i say look nice (apart from cheryl cole, she seems to lover her!)-She is always telling me about other men whom ask her out-She laughs at my stupid doings/sayings-she asks me if i want to go to the local bar, then asks one of her girl mates to meet us in there about 2 hours laterI was out with her sometime ago, ok we were both a little drunk but she accept linking arms for the walk home, ive never had any of my girl mates do that before when walking home! When we got in, i reach round her to grab my drink, and she tried to hug me.....However shes always telling me she has no time or place for men in her life?? I can't figure out if she likes me or what??Any good advice? cheers
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (22 November 2009):
well my friend
she is beign friendly and i dont think she has any thing more for you..
because if she had some thing serious in her head
she would have out short skirts on or see through pajamas
while you are togeather in the house..
but as long as there are no cleavage shown and no serious flirting i think she is just being friendly
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009): I think she likes the companionship
The fact she is the landlady means it's her home, so she'll try to get to know you well as she's sharing her home with you.
Her trying to hug you when you went to get your drink is easily a misunderstanding, she could of thought you were hugging her...after a few drinks you become rather merry and just respond back etc
Is it just you and the landlady living together or are there others?
Make sure you spend some time away from the house when she's in or invite your friends over/go out with them so your landlady knows as well as being a friend to her she should note you are also a tenant...just to give that loose boundary.
She's already said that she has no time or place for men in her life...I think the fact you live with her gives her that companionship she wants...without any relationship attachment.
It's very easily to fall into liking someone, especially if they live with you..at the moment from the sounds of it nothing has really happened that could actually be some sort of indicator.
Give it some time and then question later if it starts becoming more obvious/frequent. =]
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