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He says he wants to be a couple, but he doesn't text me as often

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Question - (21 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2009)
A female Australia age 30-35, *rincess166 writes:

Hi, I've been dating a guy for quite sometime now, he calls texts me a few times during the week so we can go out on the weekend usually both friday and saturdays. He doesn't mind seeing me even with my friends and gets along with them too.

Last week he said he wanted to see me on sundays too but that wasn't possible since I am still studying. He is really affectionate, sweet and he even pays for everything which I feel guilty about . The last 3 weeks he's been saying he misses me a lot during the week and wants to see me often. So we see each other twice on the weekend.

Two weeks ago he told my friend he wants to be boyfriend and girlfriend but said it was up to me. He thinks I need space I feel because I take chemotherapy. This week though he didn't talk to me from monday till friday night until I texted him and said I haven't seen u in forever how have u been? And he replied with hi stranger I've been good out this weekend? Then he said he was out with friends. Which then I said if u want to hang on saturday night I would be up for it, if not that's fine. Which then he replied of course I do, talk to you then x.

I understand that he can hang with his friends but why would he stop texting me all of a sudden this week? Not even a hello? I am probably seeing him tonight should I ask if everythings alright or does that seem desperate? He seems to be hot and cold and playing coy this week. Is he testing to see if I text him? I do text him occasionally but its mainly him that texts me to go out.

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A female reader, princess166 Australia +, writes (22 November 2009):

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Thankyou for your answer Gina, the only thing that worried me was that he always texts me to see what I'm doing or if we are doing something and I got nothing. And also because last week he said to let him know if I was free next week and I said I was, and still no text argh!!

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