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anonymous
writes:hey all, ok i know a girl in my class since 3 months ago and its really going well, she is so nice and funny likes me and she knows that Ii do like her but I havn't said it at all, and I'm 70% sure she likes me back (why there isnt any 100% for guys in the world! grrr) because of her actions by teasing, hitting, looking, smiling a lot with each other ... So today I wanted to say to her, to confess that and we were alone chatting then I just did it and then she said nothing but smiled and said thanks cuz I metioned the things I like in her.I didn't hear any answer and the class mates came so I couldn't continue, then she stayed sitting beside me studying and everything was fine. THIS is the most important thing... after i told her it's like she went in another world, not focussing cuz her girlfriends had to repeat the question 2 times so she got it cuz first time she was really away, then in the class she was also not focussed in the class but sitting still and thinking, I dunno how to say it!, it's like sleeping with open eyes! Now it's weekend, so pressure her and talk with her these days or give her space wait for her reaction on Monday? OR was that NO from the beginning or I cant figure it out now?!OR I should talk again and ask what she thinks back about me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009): call her and have a normal conversation as if nothing happened...then ask if she's okay. But don't pressure her, at the same time giver her space.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009): Hey!
Definitely talk again and asks what she thinks of you. If she, as you put it, goes into another world...get her attention back and try asking her out on a date and see what she says.
If you ask her direct questions when you guys are alone, you have a better chance of a response.
Good luck to you =]
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