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writes:My bf, 25 years old seems to have double standards. It is ok for him to flirt with other girls and lead them on, yet its not ok for another guy to even just say "hello" to me. Why does he do this?I dont want to flirt with other guys, but I feel bad and guilty just saying hello to guys I have to work with because I know my bf would be upset. What makes it all the more confusing is he is a major flirt with girls. And often makes sexual based jokes to them and even goes to the extent of pinching their bums and makes it out to be a joke. Yet a simple hello from a guy to me is a big issue to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2009): i would leave him now. he is one of those guys who are gonna turn out be a cheater and possibly an abuser
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009): you deserve better honey
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009): omg! Not okay!!! my bf is the same way! leave him, because he is going to hurt you really bad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009): Definitely double standards. There is nothing wrong with any guy saying hello to you or even having conversations with other guys, especially if you work with them. I mean, you see them almost every day. However, he can touch these other girls in areas where he shouldn't be? I think that you should have a talk with him about this; his flirting and touching may be 'innocent' but it's disrespectful to you. Ask him what makes him so upset about you talking with guys, and ask him to--out of respect for you--not flirt with these girls or touch them in any inappropriate way. If he doesn't ease up on being upset or on the flirting/touching, I say lose him since he doesn't respect you.
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