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anonymous
writes:i've been texing and meeting this boy for about 4-5 months, last week he told me he liked me but didnt want a relationship yet... all of a sudden since that he's been 'forgetting' to text me or ring me and tonight he even forgot we were supposed to be meeting up, we arranged it last week. i dont know what to think? before this month he would tex me all the time and ring me everynight, now he hardly ever calls me and im always texin him first. Do you think its possible he's also seeing anyone else or he even likes me at all? Thanks in advance xx
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reader, bucket1 +, writes (22 November 2009):
to be honest, all girls read into things really deeply. this guy might just be getting nervous because he might actually be coming around to the fact that he really likes you and he is worried about how he looks to his mates, in which case, he's trying to keep you keen on him (obviously by going the wrong way about it)
if i were you, i'd just ask him why things have changed, if he's protective about it, just tell him that your not going to be pushed out because you deserve much more than that. if he comes back, he's worth it, if he doesn't, he's really not!
i say don't worry! but just ask him about it. my boyfriend of 2 years forgets to text me sometimes, i give him hell!!
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reader, Jezebel +, writes (21 November 2009):
 It certainly seems as though he has found someone else.
The best way to find out is to ask him - not by text, but by phone.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 November 2009):
Like all young ladies, you'v matured before your time. Like all young guys, he's hasn't matured as quickly. You really like him, and you want to show it. I think he does like you, but I'm not sure that he knows what he wants at the moment, or what he's getting into. Young guys can be very confused by the dating scene at this stage, especially if he hasn't had a girlfriend before. He said he didn't want a relationship yet, which leads me to think that he just isn't sure about what he wants or feels at the moment. I don' think he's seeing anyone else at al. I think he likes you, but I just think he's either terribly nervous, or isn't ready for this kind of step forward. The only real way to find out is to gently speak to him about it. Ask him if he feels okay about what has been said between you, and say that you would like to know whether he wants to take it further. Anything less than a 'yes', followed by actions to prove it (turning up for dates, etc), and it might work out. If he doens't know, or lets you down again, then he isn't ready and you'll have to move on.
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reader, MsFrankie +, writes (21 November 2009):
 Sorry my dear but it sounds as though he is seeing someone else - or at the very least isn't interested at all. Ash him alright if he is interested - although it sounds as though you may already have your answer - move on if you can and forget about him.
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reader, amy louise +, writes (21 November 2009):
i'm sorry to say it but i think he is.he may not be but it all adds up. But you should talk to him first about all this, tell what you think and see what he says about it.
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