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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Ok .. so 5 years ago i had a crush on this guy which now turns out to be love. However, he doesn't know that. I cannot tell him because then the word will spread and that would ruin my reputation. He might get married soon! What should I do? Shall i get over him?! ;[
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009): yes sweetie, move on. He has his life planned already... :( I'm sorry
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reader, Accountable +, writes (21 November 2009):
I'm not sure how you've decided that its progressed from a crush to love? Have you had any contact with this guy which suggests your feelings are at all reciprocated?
I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but if theres no indication that he feels anything other than love for his fiancee, I'd take a step back and let them be happy.. I know thats a sacrifice for you, but trust me, you will move on with time and meet somebody who feels the same way about you as you do about them. Good luck :) xx
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