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*heerwhore23
writes:There's this guy that I've been best friends with since like 3rd grade. We are so close cuz my brother and him are best friends and me and his sister are best friends. Anyways recently he's been really like touchy and he's one of the hottest most popular guys at our school so of course my friends tell me to go for him. He always holds my hand walks me to class and we talk every night. Last night us 4 went to watch movies at their place and he kissed me on the cheek and hand.. idk what to think about this cuz I'm pretty sure his sister (my bff) hates seeing us like that.. but my brother is dating my other best friend and I don't mind it so why is she freaking out? I don't even know if he likes me!! Helllppppp
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reader, Accountable  +, writes (21 November 2009):
 Obviously its just weird for her, the idea of her family dating her friend.. different people have different opinions on this, and it does make some uncomfortable. It might be that shes feeling threatened, like you two will get so close that she'll be cut out, or she might just feel like its strange, especially if youve all known each other since you were young and she has this very firm idea that you are all just friends. Or she might think of you as a sister, in which case her brother going after you would be weird to her, dont you agree? There are lots of reasons she might find it strange.
So the best way to find out if she is feeling weird about it is to talk to her, and if she is then you can find out why! And hopefully, put her mind at ease :) be sensitive when you talk about this with her, she probably realises herself that she should be ok with it. Good luck :) xx
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