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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I don't know whats wrong with me but I really have come to realize I am obsessed with my former teacher. I thought it was normal to fall in love with your teacher but its already been 4 years passed and i still can't get over this crush. Everytime i look for a guy either they disapoint me in some way or disgust me with their immaturity. I compare every one to him. Were fourteen years apart and I'm eighteen now. I am a seniro this year and just want to start over somewhere else because I can't stop thinking about him. He's a middle school teacher and I see him all the time. It's like my mind is programmed to thinking about him in loving or lustful ways. He was attracted to me years ago when I had him as a teacher but now its like I have to move on. It's like everytime I know where hes going to be I try to be at the same place to see him or get his attention, it works in a way but then after I feel down again. I know what I need to do but I can't seem to actually do it! I need help on how to get rid of his face in my mind and let destiny take its course. If its meant to be well be together later on after graduation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): TBH it doesnt look like its meant to be, there is an age difference and im sure you can find someone of your own age eventually who you will feel strongly about aswell.
first thing to do is close your eyes take a deep breath in and picture him in your mind now just as you take a breath out blow him out of your mind and watch him disappear.
then remind yourself that you are worth every guy in this world if you wanted them and that you have your whole life to lead and will find your own soul mate soon this guy isnt him..
best of luck
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