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age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, when i was 22 i bumped in to my old school friends and became good mates again like we were back at school, 2 years later i was still single and my mate jess promised me to set me up with her mate and she said her mate claire is interested in me so when my mates say when are you going to get yourself a girlfriend then i said im nearly there and it looks good. My good mate kev said bring her down to the pub i said i ok i promise, it all looked good because at the time i trusted jess.As the time came closer, claire told me that she was never intrested in me and jess lied to me, i felt so ashamed that my mate jess lied to me about the whole thing and it upset me at the time, when my mate kev said to me you going to bring her out tonight i said yeh, thats when claire told me on text that jess lied to me, it hurt me because i was looking forward to going out with claire. at the time when the weekend over was my mates ditched me for lying, i only did it because i was gutted and upset and i didnt realise it would cost me my firendships with my friends that i went to school with, i was 24 then, now im 30.I miss my friends so much and its me when im there at their weddings or birthday partys and that or any other event i got new friends but i still miss my old friends, i would do anything to to change the clock back. What can I do?
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reader, Dinkie +, writes (22 November 2009):
the only thing you can do is get over them and accept that if they were really good friends they would have understood and tryed to help you out (unless you never explained?)
or you could try getting intouch with them and try to explain although if its been that long im not sure they will even care
you should just have fun with the friends you have now and make more good times
sorry if its not what you want to here
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