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*oneypothannah
writes:Me and my boyfriend are having problems at the moment . He though he was pulling me down so he dumped me . But we started talking again and we were joking around about old times then i asked him why cant we try again and he said we cant its to late and he stopped talking after that and i have sent him a message saying:"****, you know you mean the world to me and i want us to be together, i really do. And what i said to you was to pushy i understand but I really want to be with you and i hope you feel the same."What else can i say to him?Do you think it will work?Do you think he will come round?And i don't wanna give up so don't say that.Anything will help Reply to this Question
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reader, honeypothannah +, writes (21 November 2009):
honeypothannah is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeh but hes not like that
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (21 November 2009):
 I am going to say exactly what you do not wish to hear unfortunately 'give up'. To be honest you are leaving yourself open to heart-ache by sending him messages that massage his teenage ego. He doesn't want to be with you or else he would be knocking on your door. Teenage boys have the attention span of five minutes when it comes to girls. They often do not want intense, exclusive, long-term relationships. No matter how much you beg, he won't come back and if he knows you are willing to hang around waiting for him then it leaves you open to abuse. You might be the girl he turns to when he has absolutely nothing more important (in his mind) to do. Don't settle for so little. It is ok to like someone, not ok for them to dump you and for you to be apologising for what you have said or done in the hope they will come back. You have just got to move on and put this one down to experience!
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