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*lwayznd4eva116
writes:i really miss my ex. its been about a month since we really spoke. i mean i seem him twice since then, and he spoke to me, he even kissed me the other day, after telling me a month ago neva to speak to him again. so i havent hit him up and wasnt the first to speak the other day. i really miss him, but i guess its best left the way it is. but deep down inside i still wish we culd get things together again. well theres no beef or anything between us (I think) and his bday is on sunday. would it be ok to hit him up and wish him happy bday? or should i just pretend i dnt remember?? part of me wants to do, with hopes that he'll ask me to start over, but i dnt want to get my hopes up. any ideas on whether i should hit him up, and if so, what to say??
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reader, alwayznd4eva116 +, writes (22 November 2009):
alwayznd4eva116 is verified as being by the original poster of the question well he always said i played gamesz.. hes actually a lot older then me, im 18 and hes 31..well 32 now.. and we always argued so that last argument ended up with him sayin he didnt want to speak to me anymore. and yeah, i am tryin to read into his every move, tryna convince myself that he still cares about me, but i think hes just messing with my head. we were together for over a year, so its definetly hard to let go. i just hope i could tell him happy bday and end the convo rite there. bcuz im probably gunna wanna keep talking to him. im going to send him a text tho, so wish me luck with that lol,. thanks guysz :)
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reader, Sweety Pie  +, writes (21 November 2009):
 Look the best way to get over him, is just to leave it. I know its so hard, the hardest thing ever, and you'll be reading into little actions to see if he still likes you.
But there is no point to it. Occupy your mind with other things. Let him come to you, if its meant to be, it will happen. If not so be it.
As for his birthday... Id send a text. Nothing more. If you had been going out a long time I dont think he would believe you forgot; plus its still his birthday.
Good luck x
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reader, rose the relationship solver +, writes (21 November 2009):
 why did you split that would be a good start. yes hit him up and say happy birthday but dont do anything else let him make the moves, u dont wanna get ur hopes up xx good luck
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