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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:OK I am feeling really sad lately. I am seriously in love with this girl. She says, she don't trust me because we haven't talked in person yet but we had known each other for almost 2 years. She has a possessive bf of about 3 year plus. She said she's not in love with him and wants to end the relationship but her bf wouldn't allow. We have seen each other at school and she even smiled at me but we have not talked to each other because she thinks what if her friends makes fun of her and thinks she is flirting around. Normally she don't do that(smiled at me). She has feelings for me too but she is confused and she is saying, my love is a "puppy love". We are gonna graduate soon. And I told her we have to meet up soon to talk about this, but she doesn't want to and she is asking me to move on. I don't want my love to go to a waste. How do I make her understand I really love her and Im not the same as her bf?? Im really worried! :(
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reader, rose the relationship solver  +, writes (21 November 2009):
 your a shoulder for her when she needs it but if u see her in school talk to her then she might just meeting up with u outside school try ok good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009): She is telling you to move on, so move on.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009): If she wanted to get rid of her BF then she would. But she likes having him as her BF and you as her emotional crutch. You being so good to her is just helping her stay with him. You are providing extra emotional support for her so he does not have to. (You do the work, he gets laid. Get it?)
She won't love you for this. Stop doing it. I know this is hard to face but it's the truth.
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