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anonymous
writes:I've been in love with my best friend for 4 years now. He's only 19 and I am 35. I love him so much and I think I can't live without him. Please advise me on what to do.
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich +, writes (21 November 2009):
 I believe in the line " age does not matter at all "
16 years diff. between you and your best friend.
i see nothing wrong with that. why not? you have the right to fall in love just like everybody else.
the question is" do you think he feel the same as you do?
if yes' i will take the chance to get into the relationship with him. but i must be prepared on whats coming up in the future, thinking how far the diff. of the age. and i am the woman and he is the man... if no' even he dont feel the same as i do, i will not stop loving him cos this is what i want. to love him" so either he love me or not i will keep loving him. at least he is not pulling him self away from me and were still friends. with that, i can still love him, and i will do everything to love him even theres a distance. good luck sister.. its ok you are doin fine.. take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009): If your old at 35....
I think I had better book my place in a retirement home....
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reader, champilyn +, writes (21 November 2009):
 well... first you're old. I'm not sure if he'll be into you. but then again, it is possible that he is also attracted to you. Look at me, I have this super crush on my professor who is 33, while I'm 20. oh well... so what I'm saying is that, it's possible. You may start on telling him that you like him, on a joke basis. Then see his reaction. ^_^
Then if you're afraid of his answer, try telling him a story about a friend of yours, who likes this younger guy. So then you'll be able to get his opinion.
Hope this helped ^_^
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