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What am I supposed to do next with this girl I know...?

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Question - (21 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 November 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi all, I've met this girl recently who goes to my university. She has a boyfriend too (who lives half country away), but this one night she said she was bored. So we spoke for hours then she wanted to meet me. We ended up getting a bottle and going to her place. We were drunk, had a gr8 laugh and just fell asleep. I get the feeling she expected me to make the move but i did not because she has a bf although she has stated he treats her bad. she has such a fantastic personality. In the morning we spoke up late and i had to leave early.

I promised night before we would get breakfast from her favourite place because in the morning we were in a hurry, as she got out my car i gave her a note (money) so she can grab food when she has time. i could not go with her to get breakfast as promised because we were both short on time.

She wouldnt accept, after a while she smiled and took it , jus really appreciated the thought. She told me to txt her later.

She txt me first few hours later, thanking me for money for food etc.

following night i txt her asking if she was out, she was out with friends so i said send me a txt if u r free afterwards.

i didnt meet her because i fell asleep but she txt me saying she is going to go home because she is tired (3am)

No contact since, all this happened 2 days ago and now its weekend.

I dont know what to think or do. How can i find out more? Can i invite her round mine for drink, stay.....next few days? next weekend or shall i treat her like a women and just take out for a meal.

call or txt her?

any other activities girls like doing?

**i am not in this for anything physical** - to be honest doin anythin for her is worth it jus for the smile i get!

i just dont know what she feels or what to do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009):

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does nobody know?

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