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30-35,
*ovey_cat
writes:So I have a really good best friend, but we have done other things together, like kissing and hugging and that kind of thing and we flirt all the time. Anyways, he can't have sex until he is 17, I am not a virgin and he is but we both agreed that we want to do it together. I want to be his first because we both love each other very much.My question is... What should I do to make him more comfortable when we do it and what should I do to ensure he has a good time?
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (25 February 2009):
 You've had some good advice here. But how old are you? and what is the legal age of consent in your state? Do you want him in trouble for having underage sex (rape of a minor)?
Don't push it and wait till you are both old enough. And when you do decide the time is right use condoms.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): Make it in a romantic time and have lots of foreplay, ask him, communication is key
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Make sure things are planned out so nothing interrupts you. Have a condom (still wrapped) by the bed, and a glass of cool water nearby.
Are you on the pill? Do you have time to get on the pill and let it's effectiveness kick in before he is ready for sex? I suggest you try and get on the pill, just for your own safety.
Before sex, I suggest some foreplay to ease his nerves. Just touch each others bodies and get comfortable. Kissing is always nice. Also, it might be nice if you were on top at first, since he might not be too comfortable in 'the driver's seat' the first time around.
Any guys with advice?
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