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writes:In general do women tend to like or dislike the thought of a straight male liking Anal sex and do/would they like to give it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLOL I wasn't really asking how to aproach my girlfriend about this subject. I know where i stand with my partner ;) Thank you though. I was more interested in getting to know what women (you women) think about it and is it something you would personally like or dislike?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): To try bring it up with your partner, you can subtly introduce the idea of you being submissive (if that's what you like) by playing little games where she's on top/in charge etc. You could also ask her to touch your ass while she's giving you head, and see how she responds to that. If she's horrified, then maybe leave the bigger stuff for the time being :) But if not, then you can try bring up the conversation of pegging (that's when a woman uses a strap-on on her man) with her casually, and build up to it.
Don't let her worry about what it means about your sexual orientation - as long as you can try to frame it as her being this hot, dominant woman that you can't resist etc. then she may be receptive to the idea.
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reader, LampHead  +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Everyone is different. You cant presume that your girlfriend/ partner would like the idea of it. You might have to see what sort of stuff they are into, and if they are open minded enough to do that sort of thing.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (25 February 2009):
 I agree with lotus, it really all depends on your partner. I know plenty of women who get very excited at the idea of being able to be in a dominant position with their man, but all the same I know plenty of women who prefer traditional roles in the bedroom.
If you're asking because you would like this done to you, I would suggest asking a partner you feel comfortable with whether they have ever thought about it. If they are put off by the idea, you can play it off that you are too, or be up front to them that it might be something you'd want to try with them. You can even ask in a "truth or dare" style, so it looks like you are just putting them on the spot if you're afraid of what their reaction might be.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (25 February 2009):
 It really depends on the woman!! Just as some men love the thought of anal sex and some men want to run to the hills at the thought, women are all over the map too.
I, for one, kind of like the thought... and I might be up for some kinkiness. I think that a lot of women would feel the same. It really does depend though on whether they are more conservative in their sex lives or up for some wild fun.
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Try to kep in mind, everyone is different. Some females really like the idea of their partner liking anal sex, some relate it to much to sexual preference. When it comes to this topic, there is no general right or wrong, it all has to do with what one prefers in the bedroom. Most men I know prefer to be on the giving end of anal sex, but I've known a few to really like being on the recieving end. (Male friends that are open to talking to me about these things). I've never been with anyone who wanted to be on the recieving end, but I don't think I wouldnt mind if he did. I find pleasure in my partner being pleased to his fullest potential.
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