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writes:My question is quite simple, how do you give a good handjob? I'm in a new relationship but never done one and I want to feel confident about being able to do it properly.Girls and Guys please give me some tips! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2010): Gentle action works best. That is why women give better hand jobs than men do themselves. Start by lightly playing with the penis and never get too rough.
Most men like lube and KY liquid is best. The equivalent of a woman's clitoris is the underside of the head of the penis. Most of the shaft is not very sensitive.
For a fantastic hand job give the head most of the attention. Make a circle with your thumb and index finger and pretend you are unscrewing a bottle cap, but very gently. Just keep gently and slowly twisting back and forth, taking breaks because this is so intense. When you decide he is going to cum, increase the pressure slightly. He will have an intense ejaculation and probably shake violently. Do not stop the the slow rhythm until he hollers stop!
A lubricated finger inserted into the anus just before he cums will put him in heaven. Good luck and send a report!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): I recall a very special person who was in the same situation as yourself. She told me she really didn't think she would be able to do it properly. I showed her exactly how I liked it. First I wrapped her hands around and then guided her with my hands around hers. It was very nice and very special to me. In no time she was an expert in my opinion.
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reader, bluechick  +, writes (27 February 2009):
I have never given a handjob or blowjob before so any suggestions would be amazing.
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reader, Louise89  +, writes (25 February 2009):
Watch him do it first. But don't try to copy him. Do it, and ask him to hold his hands over yours. Keep and eye on his responses and you'll get the idea quickly.
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reader, LampHead +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Holding the penis hard helps a lot, and doing it fast. Boys will generally aid you, as they know how they like it. Don't worry, you wont be able to do it very well at first, but will get better with practise. Every boy likes it differently to.. so you will have to change styles a lot with different partners.
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reader, 23ConfusedOne23 +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Depends on a few things... is he circumsised or not? I think results vary but the most sensitive area is the head of the penis so if you play over there you won't go wrong. I don't like it rough at all but some do, you have to find that out about him. Some also like it when you play with their testicles.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): I was pretty nervous my first time too. But there is nothing to it, you can't really go wrong. What I will say is; relax your wrist, vary in speed (this helps you to do it for longer without getting tired and its also good for him, go really slow at first, speed it up gradually until hes going a little crazy and then slow it right down again).
But don't worry hun, its easy and you'll pick it up straight away.
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