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His arguing makes me feel so insecure.... what should I do for the best here?

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Question - (25 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *urpentineways writes:

I'm with someone who I've been off and one for over four years but we're back into a relationship and things have been pretty great but we keep arguing and I'm feeling insecure, it seems like I'm the bad guy when I just ask for an explanation.. I'm told "I'm sorry, I just am angry" and it's never gotten physical, so I'm not worried about that, I just want to know, should I stick around with the arguing or is it more likely to just stay the same?

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A male reader, LampHead United Kingdom +, writes (25 February 2009):

LampHead agony auntIf you are arguing, and it was a fresh start, then it doesn't look promising. If you start with someone, you shouldn't argue at all for at least 4 months, but bickering after that is fine, as you know your secure. Leave while your ahead if the arguments are bad.

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (25 February 2009):

jessica04 agony auntIt might be time to let him go. My ex and I had this problem where he would just get angry and not talk to me or try to work through what the issue was. It's good that he's not physical (my ex was), but if he is shutting off communication, you're only going to be left more and more frustrated.

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