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writes:I have a boyfriend we are both in our upper 30sand he shows me no affection outside the bedroom what soever. hell/ goodbye kiss thats about it. I want more, not to sound selfish or greedy but that is what I need. when we are not sleeping together we act more like friends then lovers (boyfriend/girlfriend) I am getting tired of it. what can I say to him so I don't offend him. Maybe it is normal but I really think I need more attention then him sitting on the other side of the room when company is over. Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 February 2009):
 If you want more affection from him start giving him more affection. I know it sounds backwards but he might just figure it out with out you having to tell him.
Don't always wait for HIM to initiate stuff, even a hug. You want a hug? Go get it from him :)
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reader, cupid77 +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Talk to him about it and tell him that you need more from him. Tell him that you feel like he is ashamed to be with you because he never shows you affection except for in the bedroom. Give him a chance to change after your conversation and if nothing happens then just tell him that you are not happy and find someone else that isn't embarrased to show affection. We all need that! Good luck!
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