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writes:This boy is in love with me but I honestly can't stand him. I also have a boyfriend that I like very much. And every time I tell him I don't like him like that, he's like why do you hate me? At one point I was like fine I hate you, gag me with a spoon. Then he bought me diamond bracelet that I couldn't accept cuz I have a boyfriend but I felt real bad. He's just annoying with it now. how do I get him to stop? I'm 14 and I need some help. he seems nice but he's really short that bugs me too and my boyfrend is like bffs with him. dammit what do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Confined +, writes (25 February 2009):
Confined is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys but this has been going on for weeks and it just totaly an obbession for him
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reader, cupid77 +, writes (25 February 2009):
 If your boyfriend is friends with him then tell him about the bracelet and the way he acts towards you. I think that your boyfriend needs to talk to him and tell him that he needs to leave you alone and that you are taken.
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reader, getright11 +, writes (25 February 2009):
 wow. thats hard, guys just dont understanf the meaning "NO" They think when you say no, "try agian tommorow. or something. but what you do about this is totally your desicion. and btw isnt there some sort of loyalty between your bf and your friends best friend? i mean wtf?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): Try explaining the situation to your boyfriend.
If they are such good friends, maybe if he tried talking to this kid about it, the kid would knock it off.
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reader, AlextheOdd +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Well it sounds like a crush going in to a slight obsession. I would try to find another girl with some of the same traits as you that he could get interested in or clearly tell him: "I don't want to lead you on, you can find better, i'm sorry i'm just not interested in a relationship," yadda yadda. I would personally wait until a few years older to be in a dedicated relationship so it actually lasts longer then a few months, if you know what i mean.
best of luck to you
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