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It hurts so much to have sex, I think I'm just too small

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Question - (25 February 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 25 February 2009)
A female United States age , *opelessvirgin writes:

ok so im a virgin and have been with my non virgin boyfriend for a while now.

i want to give him my virginity and we have tried having sex FIVE times now and have yet to make it work. im am a rather short girl and weigh 103 therefore im smaller than most girls down there. his dick is 11 inches long and when i give him hand jobs i cant wrap my fingers around. because of this we are having a lot of trouble getting him into me.

every time we try it hurts me so badly and even if he looks at my face and sees im in pain he stops. he tells me he wont have sex with me until he knows it wont hurt me. we have tried fingering, as well as lube. we are running out of options it seems.

people tell me to just relax but i dunno how to relax while my boyfriend is laying on top of me naked. we have used lube and it didnt do anything...maybe it was the brand.

and ive never masturbated before about 2 months ago and only started because he said it may help...and to be honest, i dont like it (masterbating).

i dunno what to do. please help...i could use it...

the hopeless virgin

ps:ive posted this question on an account i deleted...

so if youve read my question before...

im not 13.

i didnt even set an age when i made the account.

i swear to you all i am not 13.

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A female reader, hopelessvirgin United States +, writes (25 February 2009):

hopelessvirgin is verified as being by the original poster of the question

the other two times either got deleted or i didnt have an account so i didnt know how to find it again and see the answers.

sorry.

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A female reader, hopelessvirgin United States +, writes (25 February 2009):

hopelessvirgin is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i know ive posted it before one was before i made an acount and i couldnt figure out how to view answers and the other one got deleted.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (25 February 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntYou've had plenty of decent answers to this post, the last two times you posted it. The answers will stay the same so please stop posting in different names!

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A female reader, wonderingcat United Kingdom +, writes (25 February 2009):

wonderingcat agony auntOK. This the third time you posted this same question. Perhaps you should try writing an article to be published in Playboy or magazines of such like?

Cat

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (25 February 2009):

k_c100 agony auntWell if it is 11 inches like you say, then there is not much you can do I'm afraid. If you are a virgin then the area down there will not be stretched at all so the only way to do this will be to actually have sex a few times (quite a few times with his size!).

If you cannot bear the pain then maybe a dildo or vibrator may help to get you used to having something sizeable inside you but apart from this there is not much else you can do!

Good luck!

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