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writes:me and my fience have been together for 3 years this march and were both 20years oldmy fience said that our realationship has become boring,which i admit it had and coz im at college and he work full time and we dont live together yet i see him a few times a week and we dont have much money.how can we spice things up...i'd love to just be all sexy and make me want me really bad but i dont have the confidence and thats whats putting a strain on the realtionship...we need to have more fun,anybody??? help!!
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (25 February 2009):
 I hear you on the "too busy and poor for a relationship" aspect.
Sometimes when my BF and I get into a rut, we do something we have never done before. Weve had a picnic in my car at a look-out point, driven to the next state, and even gone movie hopping like a couple of hoodlum teenagers!
Also, if he is with you, then you should use that as your confidence booster. Maybe one night if you two go out to a casual dinner, let him know you aren't wearing panties. This might get his mind racing. And don't let him leave the burden of spicing things up all on you. It takes two to tango!
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reader, sexy-carmel160 +, writes (25 February 2009):
 try having phone sex on some nights they sell little massaging toy's for women at cvs,when you do get a chance to see him, have him give you a massage with honey and then you return the favor as well.make sure you tell one another you love them every morning that will make you're day's go much smoother until the next time you see him.
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