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writes:What do I do? Ok it's a long story but bear with me...There's this girl I like. I've liked her for well over half a year now. We go to the same school and I'm in one of her classes. We are friends and we talk just like good friends do. The thing is, I asked her out last year before exams and she said 'yes'. I asked what movie she would want to go see and stuff and she replied. In the end nothing happened.I want to go out with her but she doesn't really want to. I haven't asked her out really but we had a conversation about who she likes, she said she doesn't like anyone and that if someone went to ask her out she would say no.I still really like her and she still talks to me even though she knows I like her. My question is: What do I do? Should I tell her my feelings to her or just leave it?This is really getting me down.Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): Update:
I've been trying really hard to get over her. I think it's starting to work but she is getting a little close to one of my best friends. I began getting jealous even though I didn't want to.
She began ignoring me for a bit but one day I went up to her and talked to her and sorted all this out. I found out that she was giving me the cold shoulder so I stopped liking her and stuff, she still wants to be friends (I think). But until I fully get over her she is gonna keep giving me the cold shoulder.
I just hope things get back to normal and we can be good friends again
Thanks for your help by the way :)
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reader, flicka23  +, writes (26 February 2009):
 I think she honestly told you that there is no boy that interests her for the timebeing. I also think that she agreed to go out with you just to please you so that you are not offended. You should respect what she wants otherwise you might lose her as a friend. And I know it won't be easy to be just friends with someone you really like a lot. Maybe you should start to take care of you too and take some distance so that you do not get depressed.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Just leave it she is not interested in a relationship with you, and she has hinted and made it clear to you.
But it sounds like she's willing not to let your feelings get in the way of your friendship. So you can either stay friends with her, and nothing else! And support her when she does find a guy she likes that way.
Or if you can not handle the fact that you cannot just be friends with her you may have to break contact as not to make her feel awkward.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Just leave her and move on, plenty more fish in the sea. She could have felt sorry for you and said yes to please you and felt under pressure. She may not like you as anything more than a friend. Be friends with her but don't try to get her to go out with you. If she shows interest and asks you out then go out but otherwise don't bother with her. You sound like a nice person so I'm sure that you won't have a problem finding a nice girl, look around properly, there's probably someone who would love to go on a date with you!! Keep me updated! X
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