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writes: Hi, well I'm having girl problems again like always. My girlfriend (ex now) and I broke up because she said she liked someone else and I appreciated that she told me instead of keeping it a secret and I accepted the fact that she left but I really miss her and we agreed we wouldn't talk but we still do or at least I text her and ask her questions and she never answers which is fine cause I'm not supposed to even text her. My friend um we'll call her H has been there for me when I needed her and now she's here for me and I can tell she likes me a lot and so can everyone else, she's really pretty and I like her too but everyone always talks about my ex and I and how we were great together and I know it bothers H a lot. I want her to know I don't have feelings for my ex any more and even though I accepted the fact she liked someone else it still hurt and no one seems to know that. How do I tell H I really like her and not my ex and how do I get people to stop talking about my ex or at least in front of H???? Any ideas I really need help on this cause my ex and I break up all the time and I want people to know it's really over and I mean it. any ideas??????
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reader, 23ConfusedOne23 +, writes (25 February 2009):
The best way is just tell everyone(civilised) infront of H that things are done between you and your ex. She will hear that and that will make her feel better then you can pull her aside and let her know how you feel. Be confident because that will help you out when you are telling her your feelings. Soon you'll become a man so it's a good step to act like it now.
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