A
female
age
36-40,
*SMERALDA4
writes:I'm a 23 year old female. I've been seeing a friend and occasionaly we makeout. But I feel he's started taking me for granted. I know I'm fulfiling some of his basic urges but I'm an attractive, intelligent girl (at the risk of sounding cocky). How can I get him to realise that once again and start appreciating me more without having to completely stop making out? How do I turn from miss convenient to the 'goddess' in his eyes? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, LampHead  +, writes (25 February 2009):
 If you stop giving him what he wants, he will beg for more. Don't stop completely, beg for more. Lots of girls do it, to keep the interest and stop boys just thinking its normal. Make it hard for him to get a kiss, but let him know your still willing, and maybe want more.
Does that make sense?
A
female
reader, jessica04  +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
Cut him off cold turkey. Men love a challenge. when he realizes he needs to work for you, he should rise to the occasion. Put that brain and those good looks to use! Be coy and flirty to show him you do have interest, but let him know he needs to man up if he wants to keep kissing you.
...............................
A
female
reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Definitely by pulling away. Sorry, I know you didn't want to hear that, but seriously IT WORKS. My boyfriend is looking over my shoulder and says that there is NO BETTER WAY!! He says that as horrible as it sounds, human nature is to want what you can't have. This will also mean, if he does pursue you, that he actually does have feelings for you and doesn't just think of you as "Miss Convenient".
Goddesses are women of great power and beauty. Goddesses are always the chased and never the chaser. Let him chase you for awhile.
Good luck!
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): He's your friend. What else do you expect from 'a friend'? If you want him to take you more seriously, you should try to get into a more serious relationship with him.
...............................
|
