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*ubblygirl
writes:Im trying to get over a guy and looking for support.Ive liked this guy for a while but he's treated me badly in the past and is currently ignoring me. He only talks to me when he wants sex. It hurts so bad to see him able to talk to everyone else but me that I've now deactivated my facebook account. I've even deleted him in the past but i cant seem to stay away long. I saw him last week with friends briefly and it seemed like nothing was wrong, he even hugged me a few times and even talked to me a few times. Now, he's ignoring me again. Thing is, it started out as a friendship which moved to something more. He told me he liked me and we used to constantly talk everyday via text and msn all last year. This year, theres no contact and its driving me crazy. I found out he was seeing another girl behind my back and now im also wary of any future relationships.I apologize if this was long but I am looking for the right thing to do. My head is spinning and I need some guidance. Thank you
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (25 February 2009):
it hurts, l know but walk away with time you will stop loving him and meet someone who is much more than him, someone who will treat you right.keep yourself busy, don;t lock yourself in one room, go out and have fun, cry if you feel like and don;t call or text him. if he calls don't answer the phone. don't allow him to walk all over you by contacting you when he wants sex.he is doing what he is doing because he knows he can, put a stop to that
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reader, flicka23  +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Hello,I think that you are in love with this guy but it seems that he likes you more than love you, maybe you took the relationship too seriously while he was just dating a girl he feels comfortable with. This guy is selfish, he knows you only when he wants to have sex, when he gets his fill, he just ignores you untill he feels he wants to have sex again. I've been in this kind of relationship too and with time I realised that I never counted for this man, he never loved me, never cared for me, he was with me only for himself. I felt used and humiiated and I discontinued with him. I learnt to love myself more because if I loved myself I would not have accpepted to be the piece of cake of this man. Same applies to you too. He does as he pleases with you, you should show him that you are not his toy that with which he plays whenever he wants and then dump it afterwards.
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