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How can I crush his majorly oversized ego?

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Question - (25 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I met this guy through a friend and we drank together. We ended up kissing and he kept groping me and shoved my hand down his pants. I knew that I shouldn't have sex with him because I feel that he has been around so I left. I hung out with him a couple times since then and he kept rubbing my butt when he was drunk. I overheard him talking to his guy friends about how great he his and how girls should buy him drinks and they should feel privileged to suck his...yea. He hasn't been getting any so he is frustrated. My friends and his friends might end up going to a party all together and I really want to tease him and do something that will be a blow to his egotistical ass! Any ideas?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009):

Clearly, you are already out of his "class" so why bother lowering yourself to his level by even giving him the satisfaction of thinking you're a bitch?

Emotional cool is better than unbridled passion (here at least!) so surround yourself with an aire of justifiable contempt that he deserves.

If he approaches you, keep your responses as close to one word replies as possible and then make haste to someplace away from him.

In short, don't even give him the time of day.

He doesn't deserve it, you can do better and pride comes before the fall, be patient and he will be the one crying in the end...

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A male reader, LampHead United Kingdom +, writes (25 February 2009):

LampHead agony auntIf you do go to a party, pretend to want to do stuff with him, but stay sober, to make sure you don't let it happen. He will feel all pumped up and proud that he managed to pull, but then reject him last second. Deflate his ego right down. I dislike people that think their everything, and everybody else are nothing.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (25 February 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntI think you'll have hurt his ego enough by turning him down, just ignore him in future and don't fall for the fake charm he'll put on.

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