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36-40,
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writes:So my boyfriend and I broke up. I want a relationship but we agreed to be friends and hang out. I am supposed to go to his place this weekend and I can't wait. We had been living together and that meant that I was almost never alone. Now I am moved back in with my parents and I want to scream. I haven't been eating or sleeping and I spend like all day in front of electronics. Most of my friends either moved or had kids. I've been asked out a few times but I am not ready to date (especially guys who bring up sex when they ask you out). I want to hang out with someone but I have a hard time making friends. Especially with people my age. I am so bored. I need to get out and get my mind off of him. What do I do?
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reader, Hobbit22 +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Well, I was just thinking back to when I was your age, and I really liked math, so I dove into my numbers. Do you skate? Ride bikes, like to get in to the gym ?? You have to put your mind into what YOU like to do, put your mind into that- THE Environment that You just chose for Yourself, and YOU WILL find friends THERE! Your young enough where those people you will know the rest of your life, sometimes, that can happen, I know.
Get into what you are about, or start by figuing it out and Finding that answer.then.-DO IT- and you'll likely find all of it/them there.! Best to you!!!
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reader, 23ConfusedOne23 +, writes (25 February 2009):
 I think it's good to do something you like. For example a hobbie(rock climbing, miniature model making, arts and crafts...etc) or something where you can join a local forum or group where people are into the same thing as you. There you could develop relationships and become more outgoing while you do something that you enjoy. This way your mind and body is occupied.
Good luck! :)
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