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writes:I went to morgans island (water park) with my gf and friends, I went on the rides without telling her. Then when I got back she looked mad so I talked to her and asked her if she was mad and she said no. And then I went to sleep on the ground because I had a headache. Then when I went to the bar to get something to drink she talked to me about me going on the ride without telling her then she talked more and I overreacted and said that she was making my headache worse and then we went to taco bell. Then when all my friends went we both stayed until my mom picked us up and on the road we were silent and didn't talk to each other and when we dropped her off.I didn't say goodbye and didn't look at her and then we didn't talk to each other and she feels pain everytime we fight and its always my fault every time but then she forgave me but now she wouldn't and said she that I screwed our relationship and told me that I have to figure it out on my own. Could someone please tell me what I have to do to fix this relationship? She wouldn't accept my sorry's. I really really love her and dont want to lose her. Reply to this Question
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reader, im_a_dummy  +, writes (25 February 2009):
 I AM NOT TRYING TO BE MEAN!!!! I AM BEING HONEST!!!!!!!!hahahahahaha... alright i am a girl, and i have been in the same relationship for 14 months.... i think your gf needs to get the pole out of her ass.. she seems to me very controling, so ur not allowed to go on a ride, in a water park??? like whats the point in going if u cant go on rides... maybe she was upset that you didnt bring her with... but i mean really??? that is no reason to throw a bitch... just let her know, if she doesnt want to accept ur apology ur not gunna sit here and keep trying.. you will apologize one more time, and if she doesnt like it, then your done.. and 9/10 times, she will drop it right there... if she says she is done over sumthing that dumb, then she wasnt right for you anyway... dont sweat over this tho...
and if i am wrong, im sorry but i mean i dont know you, or her, or ur relationship, but i know if a guy got bitchy on me for going on a ride with my friends, i would be like... sorry, if ya dont like it fuck off... but yea...
best of luck hun... xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): ok i am a girl to and i no how we feel so i think when you ran off with all your friends and never invited her to go with you she probly felt eather that you didn't like her anymore, you were imbaressed to have her with you infront of your friends, or felt left out. now i don't no how serious your relation ship is and i am not all that old so i don't no evry thing about relation ships so if this dosn't help sorry and i hope you get an answer that dose help.
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reader, Lunchbox +, writes (25 February 2009):
Hey little guy don't beat yourself up over this. This is the age your going to find out that even if you didn't do anything it's going to be your fault. This girl needs to fix her attitude. There is no need for you to keep apologizing to her for things you didn't do. If anything has gone wrong in your relationship, it's that she is controlling. Best of luck to you buddy. We've all been there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionand btw she showed me the song Alone- Avril lavigne and she said on her pm in msn "why do i even try to explain if u dont get it?"
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