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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have some issues with my boyfriend of over a year.. I don't know what I should do, in all honesty I don't want to leave him, but i've got to the point where I don;t think i can take anymore!He will never admit he plays any part in any argument we have- he will always make me feel guilty into admitting it was all me, so I apologize and try my hardest to sort it out, even if it wasn't my fault He loses his temper over everything and always has a go at me for being in a bad mood when i am not! I can be in a perfectly good mood and he will say things such as "what's wrong/why are you moody/you seem off?/what's wrong with you now" and of course there's nothing to tell him as there's nothing actually wrong, and he will be like "why can't you just tell me/thats b*llocks/fineeee whateverrrrrr/ok then." He said to me he thinks im controlling, and he never gets to do what he wants to anymore, however, whenever we do go out he is constantly asking me "what do you want to do/where do you want to go?" and if I say "I don't mind/it's up to you" he will get in a mood.I get upset easily when he has a go at me because I feel I can never do anything right and he then makes me feel bad for being upset.Please, advice and thoughts .. I'm at my wits end and am starting to become frustrated in what was once a loving fun relationship! Reply to this Question
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (25 February 2009):
 This relationship sounds like it needs professional counselling to get back on track, otherwise its over! Sorry to be blunt but he sounds like he's miserable and you deserve to be with someoe who will appreciate you! X
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