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writes:I have been in a relationship for 2 years but things got sour and we broke up the other day. This was because first my mother wasn't supporting the relationship and she had banned me from seeing my boyfriend. The last time I saw him was in May last year then October the same year got a school in a nearby country so I left but me and my boyfriend had an agreement that things were gonna work out for us now that it was long distance relationship, so I came back this month home for holiday of one month but it has been hard for me even to see him. The other day he told me he wanted a break. The reason was he felt he was the cause of my trouble but told him am not up for it, let's work it out so he agreed. After that he was changed, he was rude towards me, I couldn't take it any more so decided to end it. Now my question is for how long can I wait before I can date again? because I don't feel no pain and there is a guy who is really sweet who has been asking me out? help me out people thanks.
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reader, LampHead  +, writes (25 February 2009):
 After 2 years I would say a couple of months. Don't get involved in any dodgy rebound partners. I broke up with my girlfriend, and ended up with a girl that I didn't even like, which ended pretty quickly.
As he sounds like he is far away, then maybe you could start seeing someone after about a month, so long as you keep it discreet and don't rub it in his face...
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Date whenever you please. Long distant relationships rarely work anyway. I don't tink there is a time limit to how long you need to grieve over a break up. A strong person may not need to hang about listening to depressing music, sobbing over a bucket of ice cream because of a failed relationship. Go, have fun. And, if you don't mind my saying so, if you are between the ages of 22 and 25, your mother shouldnt have much say in who you can or cannot be in a relationship with.
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