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writes:Well this is what happens when you get bored in astronomy class... but anyway I have been thinking a lot lately. I met a girl a few weeks ago, I hung out with her for about 4 hours the first time we met and things just clicked immediately and one thing led to another. I have never hooked up with anyone on the first date, but I really thought I liked this girl. We ended up spending the whole weekend together and it was just a great time. I guess what my question is, is how do you tell if you are getting used or not? I really hope this is not the case because I think that would crush me. Any suggestions anyone on what I should to do find out?
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reader, LampHead  +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Need to add more to it. We can't tell what you think you are being used for.
If you clicked with her, and you both got on really well, there can't be a problem. Just meet up more and see if you still get on after a couple of weeks/ a month.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Call her and invite her out for a movie and coffee or something. If she had a good time for all the right reasons, she'll gladly go on a date with you.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (25 February 2009):
 This is a pretty vague question, just because there is absolutely no indication of anyone using anyone. You went out with this girl, you had a nice time, you hooked up, and...? I mean, what do you think she's using you for? Money? Attention? Just a good time? If that's what you think, then you should talk to her about whether or not she'd like to date you regularly. And, you should be able to tell if she is using you for money or attention - gold diggers are going to want gifts and attention whores will constantly create drama for you to fix.
If you think she was just after a weekend of fun, give the lady a call! She won't pick up or accept a second date if she just used you for a little pick-me-up over the weekend.
Good luck!
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