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writes:This weekend I ran into a guy at the bars whom I have always had a crush on, but he has had a girlfriend the entire time I've known him. He has been with his girlfriend for 2 1/2 years. Well, I ended up going home him with him after the bars and fooled around for almost 3 hours. We did not have sex. The next night, I was drinking again and texted him, he told me to come to his house. We ended up spending the night together once again, and fooled around. I am a 20 year old virgin, and this is one of the first sexual experiences I have had. He told me that he and his girlfriend have been having issues lately with a lot of fights. Here is the thing, after this weekend I assumed maybe we might hook up again but I really didn't think we would because he has a girlfriend. However, much to my surprise I logged onto facebook the next day and saw that he had broken up with her. So...I am excited about this but trying to be cautious. Please don't judge me for helping him cheat on her, it was certainly his own choice to do so. Anyways, I want to see where this can go. I am extremely attracted to him and I would like to continue hooking up with him, how should I go about it? I am not really interested in a relationship, but I would like to see him. We havent really spoken much since this weekend. What should I do if I want to see him again, without making it awkward? I'm trying to avoid drunkenly calling or texting him this weekend...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2009): Sure offer him sex, that will peak his interest and be sure and tell him no strings attached and you will have your ankles up around your ears in no time!
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reader, kathy255 +, writes (11 February 2009):
Text him or call him tell him you wanna hang out see what develops. Don't be overly agressive let him make the first moves. If you don't show that you feel awkward it won't be.
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reader, savannam +, writes (11 February 2009):
that is really really tough, I had run into an ex and found myself so attracted to him, nothing happened but I know that I really want to keep things going between us, it is just kind of complicated right now. I had texted him this week but I have had no response from him which at one point is freaking me out thinking he has dropped off or is not interested at all OR that he truly is busy...I am assuming it is just the latter and I will wait for him to contact me again soon.
Anyway, I think that you should try to contact him without being drunk and maybe see what it is that is going through his mind, what could it hurt? maybe he likes the idea that you are not interested in a relationship?
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