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writes:I've been seeing my boyfriend for nearly four months now. He has a really great personality and I like him a lot but to be honest, he's not the type of person I could see myself with in the long term. We have very few common interests, he's also a good bit older than me (I'm 17, he's 24) so I feel like we're at completely different stages in life. However, I was perfectly happy to continue this relationship up until the other night. I got talking to a really nice guy and we had so much in common, it was also very obvious that he was interested in me but I had to tell him I was already with someone. I think since that I've started to think that maybe I could be happier with someone who was better suited to me.I guess my question is, how do I tell my current guy that I want to finish it? I've never had to break up with anyone before, and it's going to be a big shock for him because I've changed my mind about things pretty suddenly. I know this makes me sound horrible but I do actually care about him and the last thing I want to do is to hurt him. Oh, and it's Valentine's Day soon too. :( Reply to this Question
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reader, xlipgloss06x  +, writes (11 February 2009):
 well its not fair if you keep it going along. talk to your current boyfriend and don't let valentines day effect it you should tell him as soon as possible if i was you i would tell him and maybe he would respect your choice hope this helpsxx
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