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I can't seem to get through to him that I am leaving!

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Question - (11 February 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I recently caught my boyfriend in the act of watching porn. And, confronted him about it, he denied it. Even though I do have proof, he asked what the proof was deleted it and said I was a liar. I just can't seem to get it through to him that I am leaving, and moving away. Unless, he owns up to it. Any ideas?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2009):

Just go... he'll realise you were serious once he comes home and all your stuff is gone.

If he admits to it that won't change anything and won't stop him from doing it again so just go.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, auntie sue United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2009):

you dont need a guy calling u a liar

it seems like he is more intressed in watching porn them being with you

you need to move out and wait to see if he comes after you, if he does that means he loves you but things will have to change however if he doesn't then he isn't intressed

if this is the case, you need to forget about him and live your life

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2009):

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It's called love. It hurts but I'm tired, hense why I AM leaving.

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A female reader, peach459 United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2009):

He hasn't got it into his head that you're leaving because you haven't left. Regardless of the porn issue, why do you want to be with someone who tries to trick you and calls you a liar?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2009):

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He views it about once every other day. Whenever I'm not there, and only at really late night. And, yes I am very angry about him lying about it. He promised whenever we agreed neither of us would do so a year and a half ago and he's been doing it behind my back since.

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