A
female
age
30-35,
*lipgloss06x
writes:Before I got with my boyfriend of 4 months, I used to text this lad and we were like best mates. He admitted he fancied and has done for a long time. I was quite shocked and I felt like I had a kind of connection for him too, I left it for a while because this lad didn't want to rush into things and he has never had a girlfriend before which meant he has like no self confidence with girls as he says. At the time me and my boyfriend who I'm with now got together after a year of him waiting for me. I didn't really like him at the time, I had no connection with him, now we're like unseperable and he's grown on me and I love him to pieces and so does my family so it's all good. I don't now what's wrong with me after 4 months I'm beginning to feel kind of bored with my boyfriend, we do the same old stuff each and every day most of the time and now I've got the other lad texting me again which is making my boyfriend jealous. I think I may have feelings still for this other lad. help xx
View related questions:
confidence, jealous, never had a girlfriend, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Guitarist +, writes (13 February 2009):
 ok i read the title and knew exactly what to say... until i read the whole question.if you're bored of doing the same things with your boyfriend then do something different, and tell him how you're feeling (being bored etc). the one thing that hurts more is being dumped suddenly without even being given a chance to work things out. Its not fair on him if you were to suddenly leave him for someone else, cause you got bored. every relationship will be the same for you if you don't learn to deal with problems rather than run from them.
|
