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writes: Ok, so I call my boyfriend out of the blue. He likes me calling him every now and then..This time he was relaxing in his room and his sis was there. We talked about a minute or two. And I noticed he wasn't talking that much so I let him go and went back to work. Also, he didn't call me those sweet little pet names he always does. A few minutes later he text me.. 'Sorry I didn't talk for long but my sister was in my room.' Does he not want his sis to know about us? Maybe a guy thing?Btw I haven't been introduced as the gf yet. But we've only been dating for a few weeks.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (11 February 2009):
Hi darling,
I really don't think you have anything to worry about. He probably doesn't want to make his sister nauseous by being all cutesy and cuddly with you on the phone. Maybe they've got a relationship where she would either tease him endlessly or start asking all kinds of crazy questions about the relationship, does he love you, are you getting married, will you name the first child after her, etc. That's the kind of sister I am, at least.
I really don't think you have anything to worry about!!
Good luck!
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reader, youngiinchick527 +, writes (11 February 2009):
Well, some guys do "pass" on being that sweet guy they usually are when a relative around, most of the time its when older siblings are around. Because afterwards they tend to tease them about it later. so because of this, they usually pass on being who they usually are when they are around people like Friends, when they are around family. :)
hope this helps.
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