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*hortstuff4789
writes:ok i am hoping to get some tips on anal... my bf and i have been trying baby steps with it and im cool with it, i was just wondering if i could get some tips on it. Reply to this Question
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reader, tra40d  +, writes (11 February 2009):
 Thanks for replying.
Please do not try to do it ALL in one go tonight; you are young and with a tight, virgin bum, so spread things over several nights and let your bum get acclimatised slowly.
Oh, and relax!
If you are tense it will take longer to accomplish painless anal and there's no hurry, is there?
Good to seek a female view, but in my experience those ladies who love anal have done it this way; those who hate it have had a dry and rapid opening-up by a selfish and inconsiderate bloke.
Yes, they DO exist!
Ron.
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reader, shortstuff4789 +, writes (11 February 2009):
shortstuff4789 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you we will try that tonight and start slowly also are there any girls that have any experience?
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reader, tra40d +, writes (11 February 2009):
You are quite right to take baby steps in your journey towards satisfactory anal sex, "Shortstuff".
Get it right and you will have an enduring pleasure....get it wrong and you will be put off for life!
That would be a shame, because it is a good sexual experience.
So, what do I mean by "right"?
VERY slowly.
VERY gently.
He MUST spend absolute ages opening you up with fingers and KY first. Lots of lube - essential!
One finger....lube....twist slowly.....ease in and out....
keep going for long enough that you begin not to feel it at all...... then you are ready for two fingers.
Personally, I would spend at least an hour over that stage, maybe longer.... and then leave it at that for a day.
Next day, repeat all of the above, and twist and pump a lot, but slowly and delicately.
Perhaps stop there, as you are quite young and tight?
Only when you are quite comfortable with things would I introduce my c**k to your bum - and even then not right away.......
You would need to be really relaxed; and the best way to achieve that would be for you to have a couple of clitoral orgasms first - your cum juice is ideal for lubricating your bum anyway!
Finger you off a couple of times, use your juice up your bum and SLOOOWLY put my c**k in, a little at a time, backing off if it should feel tight.
The first part of your bottom will be very tight; it needs to be, to keep things in!
Once I had got past that and you felt ok with it, I could slowly and gently put all of my cock in.
You should have a feeling of "fullness", but no pain. This will give way to feelings of ever-increasing pleasure as you relax and my c**k starts to pump in and out of you, very gently.......
Soon, you will be longing for more, for harder, for deeper - then you will be properly enjoying full-on anal sex!
Sorry to go on so much, but I would hate you to miss out on these joys by not getting "done" properly and having it wrecked for you forever.
The sensations of anal sex are hard for a bloke to describe, obviously, but I am told that once tasted, never forgotten - nor relinquished.
Please at least acknowledge this message, and if you do get done soon, would you tell me how you got on, please?
Ron.
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