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writes:I was close to a girl a while ago, one night something happened and all that changed and she started dating another guy, we werent dating but things between us had been complicated. I have recently started talking to her again an I have gotten close to another girl. The girl i was originally close too is still with her boyfriend, but her behaviour might indicate slight jealousy. Im close to her friends an she has been asking them whats going on between me an this other girl, and she sometimes brings up this new girls name as if she is bitter. not only that is that she keeps asking the new girl what is happening between me an her. She seems too interested for someone who doesnt have any feelings for me at all. I have seen different messages from people asking about me an the new girl and one time the old girl confronted her friend about speaking to me. is she jealous?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionA few weeks ago, a girl I liked a lot, kept asking me to buy her flowers. I was still under her influence because I liked her a lot. There was a new girl I liked, but at the time nothing had happened. Even though this other girl had a boyfriend she kept asking me to buy her flowers, because we were friends I thought I would. I left the flowers for the girl who was asking me, while I was on the way to meet the newer girl. That night something happened with the newer girl and I forgot about the old girl. The newer girl and the old girl did know each other, and the newer girl knew the old girl had been causing me problems by trying to influence me. The after the night I left the old girl flowers, the newer girl said she that it better not have been me that left the old girl flowers (I left them anoymously) Now im with the newer girl. But i feel guilty about leaving the other girl flowers even though the newer girl said i Shouldnt. I feel guilty, Should I tell the newer girl or is it not a big deal anymore now that I know myself I have definately moved on? What should I do?
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (11 February 2009):
 Hmmm i'd be a bit cautious of this one, yes she maybe jealous but not for the reasons that you hope. One reason be that her current relationship is on the rocks and shes wondering 'what if' but I think there is a far more likely explanation which stems from you saying things were complicated. I am assuming by this you meant you were close, very close, but things never actually progressed to a relationship.
It has been known that people; although they dont want an actual relationship with another person, still want a monopoly on the attention of that person thus are hostile to them being with somebody else. As well as the monopoly for themselves there is also a protective aspect to it but nonetheless it basically boils down to 'if I cant/dont want him/her then neither should anybody else'. I think there is more than likely an element of that in this situation....just tread carefully and dont get your hopes up. Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2009): What do you think? That is all that matters.
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