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writes:I realize there are worse things, but my problem has bothered me a lot for over two decades, and lately it has just been driving me crazy.I have a full name that I not only hate... but I feel like it isn't even my true name. I feel like I was meant to be named something else. I have a full name that could not be more generic or common and I HATE it; I can't walk down the street without tripping over someone with the same full name. I want a unique name that I can cherish because it's all my own.I don't want to take my husband's name if I marry. I want to have an identity of my own. I hate how the full name sounds together... I cringe whenever someone calls me that; it's like hearing someone sing off-key. I would like to change my name, but I am really worried. I'm planning on going on a trip abroad in the near future. After I get back from my trip, I plan on moving abroad permanently. If I'm gonna change my name, I want to do it before I move.What worries me is that changing my name might close the door on going abroad. I hate this name so much and want to be rid of it, but I'm worried that I have to chose between changing my name and traveling. I don't have the money to consult an attorney, and I have done some research and I plan on changing my name without an attorney.I dont know if anyone can relate to how I feel, but is sucks not to have an identity, and to dread being asked your name because you're ashamed of it. I've never felt unique in my life, always Mediocre Gal. I have my heart set on a new name but with the political climate in the world, I'm worried that changing my name might ruin my chances of going abroad. Will I be force to choose?Thanks if you can help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2009): I've hated my full name ever since I can remember... I almost don't think of it as "my" full name. It's horrendous because I feel like it always sounds like, "Generic Girl."
This is really good advice though... thanks. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2009): Find an attorney who gives free consultations. I understand your dilemma. I always hated my name up until a few years ago. Now it doesn't bother me. But I always wanted to change my first name.
If you can't find a lawyer who offers free consultations, may be you can find free legal advice online. Continue your research and good luck! Have a wonderful trip!
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