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How can I not fall for him?

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Question - (11 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi! I guess I get easily emotionally attached to people because I kissed a player type guy at a party and now he is all I think about. While we were kissing, he kept touching my boobs and put my hand down his pants. I knew that I really shouldnt have sex with him so I left. I havent really seen him since but I go to his myspace a lot to see what he is up to. I really dont want to fall for him because I KNOW he will hurt me (he hooked up with a random girl the night after me) but he is just so cute and really fun and he is foreign so he has a sexy accent lol How can I not fall for him?

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A female reader, miss jane United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2009):

leave him well alone. my friend went through exactely the same thing me n our ova m8 tried to tell ehr that he was a player, now ont get me wrong this guy is one of the nicest friends you'll eva hav, but he hooked up with my m8 n then a different m8 then asked my m8 out n she sed ye n he broke her heart just leave well alone

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A female reader, ESMERALDA4 India +, writes (11 February 2009):

How about telling him exactly how u feel.. tell him u think hes so cute but are scared of moving too fast and getting hurt.. & that at d same time ud hate to lose out on him as a friend and becoming just another girl in his life.. And add a big hug at the end of this.

U at least deserve a little proof from his side of some emotional availability. Coz a real nice guy (read:gentleman) wudnt do what he did 2u..Like Casanova once said ' be the flame ,not the moth ..' A guy in love is easier to control but guy in lust will just get up and leave once hes got what he wants ..

Eitherway .. Gudluck!:-)

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A female reader, audie Zimbabwe +, writes (11 February 2009):

audie agony auntfrankly speaking you can do without such a person in your life. all he wanted was a one night stand and if you hook up with him thats all it can ever amount to. from what i gather you want more so look elsewhere coz you definately arent going to get what you want with him. good luck.

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