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writes: I met a new guy at the gym. I had my class t-shirt on so he knows how old I am. The last guy I met there was way older than me.He has been there the last two times. The first time I saw him I saw that he was cute and fun, joking around with his friend. I saw him eyeing me but didn't know what to say to him and it was the end of my workout so I smiled and left.Yesterday I saw him and I was doing some free weights. I was taking a short break and had my weight was on a weight bench. There was another one that was free but he asked me if I was using it. I smiled and said no he could use it. He went on doing excerises and I smiled to myself.I want to get to know him more. I assume I'll see him more and I'm looking for tips to talk to him and maybe hangout.Thanks. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, alohanikkiii +, writes (12 February 2009):
Next time you see him at the gym maybe you can ask him to help you with one of the machines like show you how to work it. Just be yourself and a conversation can probably start. Take it in small steps - as you're leaving the machine, you can say, "Thanks and oh by the way, my name is.." and then he'll introduce himself and reply that he'll see you next time or whatever. Don't ask him right away.. make sure you can hold a conversation without it being awkward. Good luck!
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (11 February 2009):
just be bold and ask him to hangout some time....
before you get to that maybe while you're at the gytm/..try making small tlk and be flirty...and ass you get to know each other it'll be easier to ask
gudd luck...
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