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writes:Would you be the girlfriend of a guy who is not necessarily your type looks wise..if he treats you nice (except for one screw up)waits to do things when you are readyisn't cheapis sweetBUTworries about whether you will cheat a lot..his x hurt him I dont know how to weigh it..I like dating him, but idk if I'll want to lose my virginity to him since he's not my 'type'
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reader, hanbananano! +, writes (11 February 2009):
yes:) my bf now is completly not my type at first glance cause im pretty much goth and he weres Hollister, but we fit perfect together personality wise and thats what counts. Even if the guys not your type look wise it doenst matter if you guys fit together. rellationships are not souly based on looks, i learned that the hard way.
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reader, kathy255 +, writes (11 February 2009):
Is he ugly do you want to put a bag over his head? Just because he does not look like the ideal man you have pictured in you head does not mean he is not the one for you. If you are not attracted to him you probably don't need to date him. Don't lose your purity for a man you don't love. If you are having these doubts you probably don't love him. Wait for the right man please. If you know this person is not right don't do anything you will regret later. Remember you can't unring a bell.
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reader, Emajayne  +, writes (11 February 2009):
 Sexual and physical attraction are things that everyone says u should never judge a person on. But it is so true! I'm not saying to judge their personality because of how their nose is shaped, i'm talking attraction. What draws u to this other person.
Smell, size, hair colour, hand gestures, skin colour, are all things we look at everysingle day and we as humans are notorious for judging people based on how they look to everyone else. You say this guy isnt ur type and the fact u have to question whether or not to go out with him tells me that u arent really into him all that much. He would be more of a friend. he has the right ingredients, but not thing that says 'wow i want his babies...' *drule. Attraction at first glance is what gets two people together really...it doesnt matter how nice and appealing they are on the inside, u have to get close to the person to find out those things and the initial pull is the key to unlocking the innards of a person.
This guy doesn't trust u, but why should he? His ex cheated on him and he is probably still a little warry of people around him and is struggling with it. I wouldn't date a guy that just didnt hit the right chords. I would take the time to get to know him (as sometimes as u get to know the person the more attractive they become to u) but if there was still that little somethin' missing i would say "hey i like u and all, but i think we should just be friends :)"
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reader, Emajayne +, writes (11 February 2009):
Sexual and physical attraction are things that everyone says u should never judge a person on. But it is so true! I'm not saying to judge their personality because of how their nose is shaped, i'm talking attraction. What draws u to this other person.
Smell, size, hair colour, hand gestures, skin colour, are all things we look at everysingle day and we as humans are notorious for judging people based on how they look to everyone else. You say this guy isnt ur type and the fact u have to question whether or not to go out with him tells me that u arent really into him all that much. He would be more of a friend. he has the right ingredients, but not thing that says 'wow i want his babies...' *drule. Attraction at first glance is what gets two people together really...it doesnt matter how nice and appealing they are on the inside, u have to get close to the person to find out those things and the initial pull is the key to unlocking the innards of a person.
This guy doesn't trust u, but why should he? His ex cheated on him and he is probably still a little warry of people around him and is struggling with it. I wouldn't date a guy that just didnt hit the right chords. I would take the time to get to know him (as sometimes as u get to know the person the more attractive they become to u) but if there was still that little somethin' missing i would say "hey i like u and all, but i think we should just be friends :)"
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