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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I dont know what to do. I recently met this guy on holiday who was lovely and we liked each other a lot. However, I have a boyfriend already. The guy knew that as I told him so nothing happened between us but we had such a lovley moment togehter, he was like my best freind as well as being gorgeous. I dont normally look at other guys in that way. Anyway I have his number and I have text him but he has shut me out completly now. I just need help getting over him, I dont even know if i love my boyfriend anymore who we have a daughter together. I Just cannot stop thinking about this guy from holiday. I feel like a love sick teenager, although im an adult. I did not ask for this to happen and just want to move on but its making me very depressed. Ive even tried looking him up on facebook but thats stalking him. Please people i need good advice!!!! HELP!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2009): Holiday romances seldom work out in the long run anyway.
I'd guess he was being really sweet, kind and considerate and hung on your every word whilst you were in that holiday heaven, in the hope of getting into your knickers before the break came to an end. He didn't succeed. He's now probably back with his wife and kids or his girlfriend and got back to reality. You should do the same. It was a fling that didn't happen, neither is it likely to by the look of it.
Your future is with the family you already have, not with some fly-by-night you met on a beach somewhere. Just think of how you'd be placed if your other half discovered what's going through your mind right now.
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