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Best way to achieve Big "O" and what to use?

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Question - (11 February 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *utelittlegreeneyes09 writes:

Ok. What is the best thing to use to achieve orgasm. Is there any thing that might be liying around my house I could use? Also, I am wondering what the best sex positions are.

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A female reader, Crazy-Candice United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2009):

Crazy-Candice agony auntyou could do with hooking up with a dildo but then again my first orgasm was with some small hand massager thing lol.

Ive known people to use the ends of brushes lol. maybe just something safe that looks like a penis wash it before and after with warm water and that.

Tbh aiming for orgasm never helps, sometimes i have the best ones when I'm not even expecting it or trying. Then again i struggle to acheive orgasm these days as I barely have time to have a masterbating session and Ive had a lot of emotional problems with men (and they are so selfish!)

but anyway just have a good wank and go with the flow.

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A female reader, Crazy-Candice United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2009):

Crazy-Candice agony aunti find different things every time, Vibrators are obviously great and doing it in wierd places Also dual vagina-anus stimulation, I have the best orgasms when I build up for an hour or two, have a nice long bath, completely relax and then go wild.

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A female reader, Firefighter's Wife 09 United States +, writes (11 February 2009):

If you have a shower head that detaches and it has multiple settings, you could use it! Just make sure if its on jet stream your water isn't turned up too high! You might hurt your clit! You can also lay down under the faucet in the tub, I have heard that the steady stream sends some women over the edge!

I guess just prop your feet up on the wall and lay under the faucet. I hope that made sense.

Best sex position is whatever you are comfortable with. For some reason me and my husband can not get the whole doggy style thing down! I like it when he is on top. Since I'm pregnant, I'm supposed to be on top, but that allows for maximum penetration and I can't quite handle all of it if you know what I mean.

Its all up to you and your guy. Make sure you are comfortable and don't try out any new sex moves while actually doing the deed! Try it out before hand with clothes on to make sure you both understand it! Then you can rock it out in bed.

I'm pretty sure the whole porn star move with the girl upside down and the guy pile driving her doesn't actually feel good or work! Could you imagine the neck cramp??? Lol.

Also you can use your favorite search engine and type in sex positions, it will probably give you a million results!

The butterfly is fun! Look it up! I doubt I can explain it on here!

Good luck love! Have fun!!!

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A female reader, cutelittlegreeneyes09 United States +, writes (11 February 2009):

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What things other than fingers can I use? I have a small back massager but no dildos. ANYTHING THAT i might find around the house?

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A male reader, Mr hair man Ireland +, writes (11 February 2009):

Oral sex position has to be 69er :D

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