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writes:I just cannot move on....Got dumped 4 months ago but he still calls me nearly daily and we see each other so its like it always was but without the sex! Then I get confusing signals like he still cares and if pushed he reminds me we're just friends and I should move on and he's only staying in touch to be supportive..but for this long?! He says the age difference is a problem for him (I'm 15 yrs younger) and he's being kind to me setting me free plus he's no longer 'in love' with me. Hurts so much cos I still love him and if I'm honest my pride is really hurt too and I get so angry like how dare he not want me! My mates think he has problems and this is the easy way out for him but I'm not sure if they're just being nice to me.
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (5 December 2009):
Here's your problem: you still talk to him regularly. You can only get over someone if you don't speak to them or see them. Either tell him that if you two are no longer together than it's best to go your separate ways and not even a friendship can exist. Or you can just stop taking his phone calls. Your choice.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (5 December 2009):
 Set boundaries. Stop taking his phone calls. It's been 4 months and it's time for you to cut the cord and move on to someone new.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): He is an old dude, isn't he. Why is calling u You broke up, that's all to it, move on
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