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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Situation. approximately a year ago, as we start our new college life, we three are happily going together. my best friend and a girl. both of them just hurt from their recent love story. after a few months, i have notice their growing feeling towards each other, as a friend, i distance myself from them. i tried to give them space to move on..however, i had notice that the girl been crying a few times because of mistake did by my best friend, without realizing, slowly i have step into this relationship, and i am shocked as i soon discover my feeling towards this girl. it's an intense love feeling, not a simple crush but a love i daresay.from a matchmaker, i afraid i might be the third party, hence i am distancing myself from them. yea. i distance myself from this used to be a great friendship. complete distancing. i told my best friend about my situation, and he with a cool tone ask me go for the girl, may the best guy get.. but i know, i know i couldnt do this to my friend. i care about this best friend. his previous love story, his girl too betrayed by going to his best friend. i dont want this to repeat itself.but whenever i hear the news about the girl, i will feel weird in my heart. and i will feel angry whenever my this best friend attend to his ex. he still love his ex.. and few occasions, his irresponsible actions had hurt this girl. i don't know. i am in a confusion now. i love this girl. but this girl love my best friend, and i care my best friend too. i just want her to be happy. and my best friend too.i tried to be a little nice guy here, sacrificing myself. in the beginning, i am alright. at least my little sacrifice paved a nice path for both friends i care.. but recently i know, my best friend ex is back to town and he been hanging out with her.. i know my best friend characters, he insist he is not ready for this girl, but i know, he likes her, and on top of that. he loves his ex.. yet he been giving hope to this lady...till now, their relationship is full of ups and downs, they are not officially on yet, but they been spending lots of time together, recently the girl complained of being tired of his lies and his ex.. they havent talk since then.. i don't what to do now. should i confront my best friend and tell him about the ladies feeling? what should i do? i love the lady, i don't want her to be hurt. but at the same time, i am suffering as well..
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you. but i still dunno.. i feel like being a third party. anyway. thanks a lot dude..
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): tell u what go for the girl u like,ur bestfriend doesnt deserve her.I know its hard but trust me I was in a situation like this,guess what I did I STEPPED BACK and I still regret about itBut in the end its ur choice,bestfriend or the girl.Hope u make the right choice ^_^
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