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*orsegurl122
writes:im 16, and i feel like im ready to have sex. i dont want to do it with some random guy, but would it be better if i did it with a close friend who is also ready???(: thanks in advance x Reply to this Question
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reader, horsegurl122 +, writes (5 December 2009):
horsegurl122 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you to all of you, you really helped. I am going to wait to find the perfect guy, as i took in all of your points, and believe that waiting is probably best. Thank you very much (:
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reader, romance_boy18  +, writes (5 December 2009):
 i recommend wait until you meet the right person, believe me it will be more meaningful. if you need to get rid of this feeling you are having, then try masterbation, everyone does it plus its natural.
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reader, naiveada  +, writes (5 December 2009):
I will give you some very wise advise. wait to do it with someone that you truly care for. I made the mistake of loosing my virginty to a guy that i careed for but he was in love with one of my friends. I can only tell you that if i could go back i would have waited. I too felt like i was ready and i rushed in to it. I dont want you to get hurt or used. so please wait. everything happens at its given time. : )
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): Dont start your sex life by being used as a dustbin to build some random loser guy's ego. Why do you not value yourself? Why do you cheapen yourself like this? Wait until you find someone and fall in love with them. But if you are rolling your eyes and don't really care, then google sites where your virginity might be worth thousands, possibly millions and auction it off and pay for college. (joke!)
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reader, CandyCurves +, writes (5 December 2009):
I agree with A male reader, CaringGuy. Your bound to regret it. Your only thinking about the intercourse, what about after it. You have to be in a stable relationship. I dont think you would like it if you lose it to some randome guy and he goes and spreads lies about you or gives you an STD. Having sex can ruin your friendship with a close friend ,are you ready to jeopardize that?
Think with your head, not with your Genitials
CandyCurves
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 December 2009):
Sweetie, wait until you meet someone who really cares about you. There is nothing worse than knowing you've given it to someone who either doesn't care or is random. I've met quite a few women (and some men) who have been used or have given it away and are hurt. Meet the right guy first, then it will be meaningful and you'll have a good memory. Don't get hurt, and always be safe so you don't catch something. But find the right guy. Better to find Mr Right once, the Mr Wrong twice.
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