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I really like this guy but am getting mixed signals from him.

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Question - (4 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 December 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey. I’ve posted question this a few times before, but I need your help. I really like this guy but am getting mixed signal from him. He’s a mutual friend who’s at college with me.

We’ve been talking on msn for about a year, more and more. By now we talk a few times each day and he always starts the convo. We talk about anything. Thing is at college when I tried to talk to him he’d act as if I wasn’t there. This put me off so I ignored him back. It went on for weeks until it got stupid. Now I’m really shy around him. I think he knows this so he’s been friendlier with me, even though I’m still shy. He just seems to be there every day doing little things like holding the door open for me.

Problem is that my friend would most likely know if he fancied me. She hasn’t realized that I like him, but normally she’d click. There’s more chance she’d know with him. And she’d have gone on about it. He also seems to be really close to this other girl at college. They always seem to be together and are good friends. She’s a tom boy but she seems to be closest to him. So I don’t know!

Any ideas? Suggestions? Anything??? Thank you all. xXx

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2009):

There is only every one way to get through to a man, and that's to talk to him. If you're thinking that he will just notice you, he won't, because we men do not see hints. Be brave, take him aside and ask him out for a drink or something. You won't know any other way.

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